Sincerely I still cannot figure out why domestic violence is still prevalence in this dispensation. How is it right to maltreat someone you vowed to cherish, nourish and care for? It does not just make sence anymore.
Men/ women, you NEVER EVER can hit / shout down your bosses at work when they utter words you do not like. If you can’t do that, then you should never EVER do it to your spouse. What is the justification for violence in an institution ordained by GOD?
Is there something we are not teaching our men/ women right during counseling sessions and wedding SERMONS?
Are we teaching accountability and responsibility? Are we teaching commitment and dedication?
Marriage depicts a relationship between Christ and His bride.
What did Christ do for us as His bride?
What does Christ expect of us as His bride?
If we can truly sit down and do a thorough study on Ephesians 5( pls start from verse 21 and not 22), and we allow the Holy Spirit minister to us, then are we truly ready to speak and teach the truth.
Two individuals who desire marriage must first of all be complete in themselves. I think the greatest problem we have is, we are looking for spouses that will complete us hence, if that fails we begin to take the lack of INCOMPLETENESS in our spouses as an excuse for abuse.
No one can ever COMPLETE YOU. We are meant to compliment each other.
Stop looking for someone to fill in a GAP. Fill your gaps yourself, do not expect someone to do what you cannot do.
Haaaaaaaa. God we need you more than ever before.