REFUSE TO BE DEFINED BY YOUR STORY!

People will want to define you by your circummstance and situation.  People will want to change your identity because they have no idea who you are. Infact people will use your circumtance to determine how far you can go. They will use it to determine your capability. See,you are the only one who knows where […]

NAKED AND NOT ASHAMED 

NAKED

Why am I throwing my story out?  The Lord has instructed me to because He said  there  are people who need to know that no MATTER WHAT LIFE THROWS AT THEM , KNOW FOR SURE THAT THERE IS HOPE OF SUICIDE: Suicidal thoughts and suicide are real, I can boldly say that because I have […]

TIME TO GET UP

Maybe you are in a situation right now that you are wondering if you can ever rise again, you think your fallen state is permanent and can never be restored. I have a story for you!!! See you need to get to a point that you will make up your mind that whether people believe […]

NO APOLOGIES

NO APOLOGIES

Do not feel apologetic when you leave or exit environments that demean you . Do not feel sorry when you exit platforms that you sense another round of abuse.LISTEN “ YOU CANNOT HEAL IN THE SAME ENVIRONMENT THAT GOT YOU SICK.” I did and I have no regrets whatsoever. My time to soar.  They said […]

“A NON – ANXIOUS PRESENCE “

I am doing a pre- counseling course, here we are prepared for the real counseling world so on a weekly basis we do a mock counseling session and these sessions are recorded. Each week we have different TA’s supervise us including my Professor. Each time they had to evaluate my performance there has been this […]

FIND YOUR NICHE.

NICHE

You’ve got to find your niche, your community, your audience, the place you have been called. If you do not, you will just be wasting your gifts and talents.  Remember that even Christ was not accepted in his place of birth because the people were too comfortable with Him and they felt they knew everything […]

ALONENESS AND LONELINESS

LONELINESS

Many people are so scared to be alone. There is a big difference between aloneness and loneliness. Aloneness actually helps you  discover who you are. I have learned more about myself in my period of aloneness. Solitude is good for your spirit though many people find it hard to stay in a place of quietness. […]

CHARACTER BUILDING

CHARACTER BUILDING

The anointing upon alone cannot sustain you or your ministry. For you to excel in life, you need both the anointing within and the anointing upon. The anointing within is the one that builds your character and builds the inner man to be more like Christ.  It’s no wonder ministers can still operate without the […]

STOP IT!!!!!!

STOP IT

It very sad that I heard this statement from a man of God that I respect a lot: “ more than half of youths who are incarcerated are those raised raised by single mothers.” Now these things we say as a church, as a society has become  a self fulfilling prophecy to some of these […]

NEVER MARRY AN INSECURE PERSON

INSECURE

I am not sure we are really learning from events that have been happening in recent past.  It is only in  African culture people tell you to shut up and not talk about your pain.I will say it over and over again, people handle pain differently. For some people, they can never be completely healed […]