DO NOT COMPARE
Comparing children is never a great tool to measure progress. In fact when you compare you cause strain in the relationships of your children and not only that, you begin to develop negative feelings towards a child you believe is not matching up to your standard. This child will begin to doubt her/ his capability […]
TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES CAN LAST A LIFETIME !!!!
I had an opportunity to counsel a 71 year old man, when the counselling started it was initially about him , not until the miracle question was asked about past events and this person mentioned that a traumatic experience that happened to him in his late teen years that he never got over and this […]
TRIGGERS!!!!! TRIGGERS!!!! UNDERSTANDING TRIGGERS!!
I remember attending a class in family transitions , issues on separation, divorce, abuse, illness and loss were discussed. Of course about 99% of the class could relate to these transitions. As we listen to our professor lecturing and as we also watched videos, there were a lot of TRIGGERS in the class. Of course […]
KINTSUGI !!!! THE STORY BEHIND IT!!
Translated to “golden joinery,” Kintsugi (or Kintsukuroi, which means “golden repair”) is the centuries-old Japanese art of fixing broken pottery with a special lacquer dusted with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. Beautiful seams of gold glint in the cracks of ceramic ware, giving a unique appearance to the piece. Grace is what a lot of […]
NO MATTER YOUR DETOUR, HIS MERCY STILL STANDS AND WILL PREVAIL!!
My life is a bundle of testimonies and I can confidently encourage anyone who has had a detour in life. See, having a detour doesn’t mean that your life has ended ( although culture has a way of dictating that )! My situation at some point in my life was so shaky to the point […]
ANYONE DOWN TO ASHES??? Thought to bless us this Sunday!!!
Are you down to ashes? Out of the ashes beauty will come out !! Out of those ashes hope will arise!!! I was down to ashes and believe me I didn’t think beauty could come out of it. So in my little opinion of myself then, I just wanted to stay under, serve so that […]
COMING FACE TO FACE WITH MY MORTALITY!!! BUT IT WASN’T UNTO DEATH!!
When the enemy had tried to destroy you severally and he kept failing ( definitely will continue to fail). The enemy tries to distort our lives thinking he can end it but I have a word for someone today: IT IS NOT UNTO DEATH BUT THAT THE LORD MIGHT BE GLORIFIED!!! I remember that year […]
DON’T BE TOO QUICK TO JUDGE NEXT TIME!!!!!
First and foremost I will like to apologize to anyone that I have judged ( not sure, just in case) that has gained weight over the years or someone who I have seen over eating!!!! Many of us go about life without having proper and adequate knowledge of certain situations, what people go through or […]
ANYONE NEEDS A HUG???
Do you know why I so much love the Lord? I will tell you!! He listens to every of our conversation, He knows our innermost thoughts, He sees the tears in secret and above all , He loves us unconditionally!!! Now during our last conference right after the worship , I called people out people […]
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF MY VULNERABILITY!!!
I had a discussion with someone recently and as she shared her story with me, it appeared she will be needing a lot of help. She said, Pastor, at this point you can take advantage of my vulnerability, anything you ask me or tell me to do I will do.” At this point, I paused, […]